Are there people out there who are bad-mouthing you? Is there someone who has decided to destroy your reputation and image with a false rumor? I know that it is horrible and we can all be victims of some malicious gossip or rumor at some time. What can sometimes seem like harmless gossip can end up destroying personal relationships or someone’s life; that’s how serious it is. What’s important is that you prevent these rumors from starting and, if it has already happened, that you put an end to it. Here I will briefly explain how:
Be careful who you share details of your life with: Don’t give too much information about yourself and be aware of who you are interacting with and who you are telling things too. Don’t talk about your private life with people you don’t know or with people you don’t trust.
Don’t participate in any gossip about another person: It is essential that you keep your credibility intact with everyone and you can do this by staying out of any negative or harmful conversation about another person. Don’t do to others what you don’t want them to do to you.
Go directly to the source of the rumor: First, make sure you have overcome your anger and when you are feeling calmer, find out who started the gossip and talk to that person. Before you accuse this person or demand explanations, investigate what happened, what this person really said and their reasons for saying it. Sometimes with a little communication, you can clear up what was initially a misunderstanding.
Instead of avoiding the topic, tackle it directly: If you avoid the questions that others have about your supposed situation, you could create more doubts and more rumors. Without getting annoyed or upset, calmly and with composure, categorically deny what is being said about you. If they decide to believe it anyway, then it’s their problem and not yours, but whether they believe it or not depends on your attitude, more than any other factor. So, be confident and self-assured.
If the rumor is already out of control, go to a higher authority: Whether it is your boss, if it is happening in your workplace, or even with official authorities or organizations, seek help if it’s necessary to stop the person who is trying to hurt you. Hopefully, things won’t get to this point but it’s a resource that exists if necessary and when the situation is out of your hands.